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It was the duty of Asma' to tend to the horse and feed him. I was not very good at baking the bread, so my female neighbors used to bake bread for me and they were sincere women. 151]. She was married to the Prophet ﷺ at the age of 6 and the marriage was consummated at the age of 9 as per authentic Hadiths. Asmâ' therefore washed her husband sadly. [Reported in at-Tabaqat of Ibn Sa'ad], And az-Zubayr was indeed a righteous man, as the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam himself testified when he counted him among the promised ten of Paradise. Later on, her husband, Abu Bakr died. She was called Umm' Abdullah. so even though az-Zubayr had a lot of ghirah, he did not wish for that to cause inconvenience to his wife. Asma bint Abu Bakr (R.A.) died in Makkah, few days after burying her son, in 73 A.H. She was almost 100 years old but even at that old age, she had a full set of teeth and a sharp memory. When a woman has a righteous husband and he dies and she does not remarry after him, they will be reunited in the Garden." It was said that Abdullah respected Atiqa's judgment more than his own and that he spent so much time with her that he neglected his duties to the Islamic state. I said to Abu Bakr, 'By Allah, I cannot find anything to tie with except my belt.' 'Umar ibn 'Abdul-'Aziz said about him, "I do not find anyone more knowledgeable than 'Urwah ibn az-Zubayr, and for whatever I know he knows something which I do not." When He migrated to Al-Madinah, he owned a house in which he lived, a sword and a horse. Abu Bakr belonged to the Banu Taym sub-clan of the tribe of Quraysh, the tribe to which Muhammad also belonged. He said: Ya`qub ibn Ka`b Al-Antaky and Mu'mil ibn Al-Fadl Al-Harrany told us that Al-Walid reported from Sa`id ibn Bashir from Qatadah from Khalid ibn Durayk from `Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Asma' bint Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her) went to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) while wearing transparent clothes. Until I See You - Poem on The Prophet Muhammad, "I prepared the provision bag for the Prophet in the house of Abu Bakr when he wanted to emigrate to Madinah. [Sahih - Narrated by Jabir & collected in Musnad Ahmad. ", "When az-Zubayr married me, he had neither land, nor wealth, nor slave, nor anything else like it, except a camel to get water and his horse. Look at the sense of dignity and modesty of Asma'. I said to Abu Bakr, 'By Allah, I cannot find anything to tie with except my belt.' Her other son the khalifah of the Muslims, 'Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr, who was the leader of the Muslims during one of the most turbulent periods in Islamic history. I led this life of hardship until Abu Bakr sent me a female servant who took upon herself the responsibility of looking after the horse and I felt as if she had emancipated me." Zubair ibn Al-Awwam, her husband, migrated to Madinah empty handed leaving everything in Makkah. Asma' bint 'Umays Ibn Ma'd Ibn Tamîm Ibn al-Hârith Ibn Ka'b Ibn Mâlik Ibn Quhâfah. [Collected in Sahih al-Bukhari (eng. O Allah, I had seven sons and You took one and left me with six, and I had four limbs and You took one and left me with three - so if You have tested me then You have saved me, and if You have taken - You have left (more) behind." ", 'We have suffered much fatigue in this, our journey. Abu Bakr was first married to Qutayla bint ‘Abd al-‘Uzza of the Banu ‘Amir and she bore him Asma’ and ‘Abdullah. After Ja'far's death Asma married Abu Bakr. I used to graze his horse, provide fodder for it, look after it and ground dates for his camel. ", "I did not think that anyone would drink something which would take away his intellect to the point that he did not know his Lord. I felt shy to go with men and I remembered az-Zubayr and his ghirah (ghirah is the sense of pride that a man has which causes him to dislike his wives, daughters or sisters from being seen or heard by strangers - it is this ghirah which makes a man protective about his women) and he was a man having the most ghirah. He was a very poor man, nevertheless Abu Bakr knew him to be a man of great piety, so despite the huge difference between their financial status, Abu Bakr married his daughter to him. Eventually, Asma’s husband, Az-Zubayr al-Awaam (radiAllahu anhu), despite his early hardship and poverty, became one of the richest men among the Sahabah, but … And what did az-Zubayr say when he heard of what had happened that day? vol. Aisha, who was unique in terms of knowledge, ethics and taqwa, was an exceptional person who was outstanding in terms of issues like fiqh, hadith and interpretation of the Quran. Once again we will take a trip back in time and visit another great woman, Asmaa' bint Abi Bakr , one of the Sahabah (female Companions) of the Prophet This journey requires that we free our minds from the ideas of modernists and pay special attention to the life this blessed companion led, and compare it … She knew that az-Zubayr had a lot of ghirah, so she didn't want to upset him by accepting the Prophet's offer of assistance, even though that meant bringing hardship upon herself. The Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam understood my shyness and left. Although her father was the first man to embrace Islam, her mother Qutailah remained a polytheist. most beloved wife. Aisha was the daughter of Um Ruman and Abu Bakr of Mecca. Asma’ Bint Abu Bakr (RA) Asma’, the daughter of Abu Bakr, was among the companions whose journey to Medina was fraught with danger.. Leaving Mecca, she faced great opposition. [Reported in Sahih al-Bukhari (eng. She was among the early converts to Makkah and being the daughter of the great Companion Abu Bakr, she was brought up in an atmosphere of purity and devotion and shared close ties with the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam. He called me and told the camel to sit down so that he could make me ride behind him. Abu Bakr, who was the most loyal Companion of the Prophet, are too many to be counted. Isn't this what the marital relationship should be like? Hz. The Prophet Muhammad and Abu Bakr were among the last to leave Mecca. Once again we will take a trip back in time and visit another great woman, Asma' bint Abi Bakr, one of the Sahabah (female Companions) of the Prophet. I came to az-Zubayr and said, 'The Messenger of Allah met me as I was carrying date-stones upon my head and there was with him a group of his Companions. ", "My daughter be patient. She belonged to a distinguished Muslim family. حضرت اسماء بنت ابوبکر رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنها Hazrath Asma Bint-e-Abu Bakr رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنها Speaker: Moulana Hafiz Hamza Khan Date: 15th January 2021 He was killed in Makkah at the hands of al-Hajjaj on the 17th of Jumadah al-'Ula in 73H. Abu Al-Qasim, Muhammad Bin Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with him and his father), was from the tribe of Taym, a sub-clan of the tribe of Quraysh. Second husband. Her mother was Qutaylah Bint Abdul-Uzza Bin Asaad Bin Jaber Bin Malik Bin Hisli Bin Aamer Bin Luayy. Abu Bakr left a will stating that his wife should wash him after death. 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